I think sex is really liberating and empowering and I feel
like it's a great way to feel confident within yourself.
I had one guy who was just like, you know, like, can you do doggy?
I'm like, yeah, just like,
show some pillows underneath my belly and we could still do it like that
spontaneous hookups. It's not as easy as just bang, bang
and you're good to go.
But,
you know, in one deficiency, you know, you're really good at other things. So
read into that. How you will
come on
my gate.
Come on
Maggie
Mag. My name's Maya. I'm 22 years old and I'm looking for a partner.
Where do you feel from?
Can you feel from a certain area?
Yeah.
Which is
I feel for my chest down.
Yeah,
I got a breast reduction when I was 19 and I couldn't feel it. It was great.
Cos I had really big boobs
and I'm little and I sit down so it just was really disproportionate
and I have my
boobs. So,
yeah.
Oh, I can't say that on TV.
Why am I a perfect partner?
Because I'm smart. I'm pretty, I'm funny.
I'm pretty personable and if I don't like you, you know, I don't like you.
Are you on the apps? Yeah, at the moment I'm just on Tinder.
Have you had many matches?
Well, I'm going to get a date tonight actually.
That's so exciting. Yeah, I'm really excited. Do you know anything about this guy?
Yeah. He studies zoology and ecology. Yeah, that's good. Yeah.
Do you know what else you're kind of looking for, or hoping that he has? I have a list.
I have a long list on your phone. Yes, that's so embarrassing. But
I'm manifesting to the universe. So
my good old list
that I made
during
the pandemic,
it's called I do partner and I made it because
if you write down what you want
and you manifest it
and you believe in it enough, it'll come to you once it a doctor. But, but that's not,
that's not
needed passionate cos I want someone that cares.
They have to love animals and most important dogs cos I have a dog
and they wouldn't have to, like, go on dates and nights out.
I don't want someone that's just gonna just wanna stay home.
Someone that's a good communicator
because I can get a bit
dramatic.
That is an excellent job.
I'm Ollie Busy Stratford. I'm 19 years old and I'm from Melbourne Victoria.
I'm a tennis player and I'm also an actor.
What does your
dating
profile
say?
Bumble?
It says,
um,
represented by the same agent as Margot Robbie.
Um looking for someone to have some good vibes with
and yes I can dot dot dot
What does, yes, I can mean,
I think that's up to the, I think the, the, the ambiguity is the beauty of it.
You know, what, what, what can he, he can do something?
No, it's in reference to sex.
Come in, push in, push.
It definitely took me longer to figure out what I can and can't do than the average Joe
as you do. You, you know, you look for little things and, and you try and pick up.
But as more searches turned up
empty, I looked, I looked at porn and I looked up
people in wheelchairs.
But unfortunately, if anyone's out there thinking about doing it,
I'd strongly recommend don't do that.
Um It's all, it's all weird stuff and uh yeah. Yeah, weird kinks.
People have weird kinks. Hey,
just smile.
Wait for the flash. I need more boobies. Wait for the flash.
I'm Chris
for Thoris
26 years old and I am single.
That's a cute one.
I actually got a tattoo here cos everyone asked me where can you feel from?
So I've actually got a tattoo that says from here
because I'm sick of answering the same question.
Getting back into the sex scene. I guess after my accident was actually
probably one of the most difficult things that I had to
face.
It was more like having to go on a like
self love journey first before I was even ready to like
have sex with someone again.
Like one time I met up with a guy and I purposely made sure I didn't shave downstairs.
So that was like my cock blocker cos I was like, no, I'm not ready for it.
I'm not prepared. I haven't done my bow days. I haven't emptied.
So I was just like, nah,
don't shave cos that means you will not let him see your vagina.
I still gave him a head.
But anyway.
Ok. Ok.
And we both haven't been single and we're gonna go out tonight.
What kind of guy are you actually looking for tonight?
I actually don't know the answer to that because the ones that give
me shit like straight up or like pay me out for my disability
like I am so attracted to that,
fuck me
because they just,
they just like they don't see my disability and they don't treat me like I'm
someone that is gonna like they have to walk around on eggshells with me.
So when a guy has the balls to not do that, I'm like, let's go, let's go.
So what are you looking for in a guy tonight?
I'm not too sure.
It's always someone that's mostly it's always someone
with tattoos like I'm covered with tattoos,
they've gotta be covered tattoos
that are rude and mean and play hard to get
well if they
don't show
interest. Yeah. Great. That's what I like. That's
not because of the,
that's one thing I've learnt with my disability.
That's the one thing I've learned from red flags to green flag.
You, I don't know why you get attracted to the guys that aren't showing you interest.
Find someone that's actually showing you interest tonight
and go for them and I bet you you're gonna have the best time of your life.
I found it really hard to like, find out what I could do and couldn't do like it was only
recently that I found out that I could finish off and have an orgasm.
And
I try to explain this to people that
for a female, especially a lot of our orgasms are, you know,
from mental stimulation, not so much from the physical side, unlike men.
So recently I made sure if I was gonna have sex, I,
I really wanted to have that emotional connection with someone
because I wanted it to feel more
enjoyable because
I've learned that it's a lot in, you know,
gotta do with what's going on inside of your head and being turned on and
taking time and then the aftercare after, you know,
like the cuddles and stuff like that.
So I find it that it's,
yeah, really fun. Now,
I wanna get a guy that actually like treats me nice is kind to me. Lifts up,
little lifts me up the stairs, buys my drinks
enough of that sub
shit. Let's go to fucking Adelaide.
Let's go to
a
shot straight up before dinner.
I'm not eating, I'm not eating anything. I need to get fucking lit.
Legless.
Oh This looks good
vibes.
I see Gus tonight.
Yeah, he is cute
tall, I think.
But that doesn't really matter. Cos I'm sitting anyway
if you like, Gus will tell Gus you like him.
We've always said like, oh you're really funny.
Uh And like just block them because you love them.
That's all I need.
It's so bad.
What am I doing tonight? Well, we are seeing that chick up there,
Jade,
Jade I met on set for my first TV gig.
It was an instant like, oh I, I'm gonna get along with this person.
We just have fun together and it's, I think it's really special to have someone
that you have fun with. I I'm not setting any expectations for it
that it, we're, we're past that in our relationship that we're in,
in terms of as people
but yeah.
Yeah. Just gonna have fun.
Fuck.
Yeah.
No. Yes, I got it. 000
alright.
Here we go.
I
Right.
J
uh huh.
Fancy. See
you here.
Wow. Look at this, Jad.
What's going on? How are you? Yeah. Good, good, good, good.
Look at these, these all matches Jesus.
Oh that's
oh
the grandma adore.
What's her name?
Anger
or something like that.
Uh
This is for you.
Stop it. Flawless.
What happened to you getting a piercing lie?
What happened to you? Come when you watch the ant,
what happened to you? Testing me the last three weeks.
He didn't have to go there. That was a low boy.
No, it's not funny.
Well, uh, um,
do we go
hat glasses, top
hat glasses.
What are we doing? Hat, glasses, hat glasses, top,
top,
I reckon we're going bougie.
Oh, we go. Ok. So we, we, we them classy
put together
boojee jacket glasses.
You're wearing a hat?
It was so frustrating to shop for all this.
Get
off.
Like
no.
Are you
up right
now?
Yeah,
nice to
meet
you
today.
Not a whole lot to be
working in a bar.
Yeah, we've actually got like a new space but like the bar at work,
it's quite kind of intimate.
It just kind of has 33 levels that kind of,
you know,
I
guess.
But yeah, we've got like a little karaoke
booth downstairs.
I was down there
for a function like last weekend behind the bar. There
was
a, just a little bit
shiny.
Do you want to give yourself a dab down,
fresh off the fucking surf at Bondi?
Dude? He's got surf pitted.
Oh, you actually,
that's not bad
actually. Look
cool.
No, no,
it doesn't.
I, I kill that.
I
feel like
I,
I'm actually,
I'm
proud of that. I'm pleasantly surprised of how you look. Even the hat looks good
that
I am. I feel
drippy. I do absolutely luxurious strip.
Where are we going?
It's got a great name. It's called Taco
Tacos.
That's
good.
You
know, with
previous partners, you know,
I
was
the
same
when
I
went from high school into university
that
got
into a relationship pretty quickly after that you need lasted all that long
and then, yeah, like, kind
of single through, like,
you
know,
kind of
period
and everything
and I guess, you know,
moving
forward, what are you looking
for?
I'm looking for a
partner.
Yeah, I'm not really good at the casual relationship.
And what are you
looking
for in a partner?
Um I'm just
someone that's like kind
and there's like black
interests.
Were
you?
No worries. Well, yeah, I'd love to catch up again sometime. Thank you so much.
Bye.
Get home safe. Alright, lovely to meet you. I'll see you soon.
It's Taco taco time. Thank God
I
didn't have a case of
soggy
but
soggy
cold. But other than that, I mean,
I feel like I picked out the better outfit but
um
no,
you
didn't. I I think I did
this
other than
that we've got in a briefing though.
I hit you with a curveball. Let it be,
let it be
fucking wham
dating with a disability. Y
You can't just sort of hope that people are going
to talk to you in a romantic or sexual way.
You have to initiate that.
Otherwise I think a lot of people
just don't understand the wheelchair and then just leave it.
That's their first instinct.
So for me to break through that and people to go, oh, he's fine,
then that's opens the door to it.
When I wasn't really comfortable with my sexuality. I would just
cover myself up and make myself be in the background.
Whereas now I wouldn't do that.
I would just be me and I'd just go out
and wear whatever I wanted and say whatever I wanted.
My way of living life is f
to make it. So I just
pretend I love myself. I do love myself but like
I, I do have insecurities and my biggest insecurity would be how I look naked,
especially having no, ah, so with the sex and stuff like that,
it's probably my biggest insecurity
but I still don't let it stop me from having
fun because I'm still gonna enjoy what I have.
Yeah.
Where are you going? Middle,
middle, middle?
I'm not even pushing.
Oh, there's a bar there. What's that? Richmond?
I know. We, we, we go
out,
oh my God.
That no, no
one, no one
put
it.
Uh
Yeah,
I
think this is a club
payoff.
I,
oh, shit.
Oh, sorry.
Yeah. Take it, take it, take it.
Wow, that was actually really good.
Oh,
hi. How are you?
What's your name?
Pardon?
Sorry. How do you say it? Rodrigo?
Christa.
How are you?
Yeah.
II, I will have a
I'll have a
body.
Thank
you. Thank
you.
Thank
you.
I
swear
I've got dementia ever since my accident. Hey,
like I forget I'm so bad.
And
what did you get? Did you get vodka as well?
Alright. Alright. Let's cheers. Let's
cheers
I
It
so this is my sister, this is Irene
Rodrigo,
Irene Christine, another Christina.
So there's two Christina, there's a map
and 10 ne.
Anyway, what do you do?
I I don't, I don't know what I do. I
OK, so I had an accident about three years ago.
So I paralyzed myself so I actually can't walk.
Yeah. So I'm actually in a wheelchair.
That is my wheelchair is my friend in my wheelchair.
So yeah, when I was um when I was in hospital, I had like 10 doctors with me
and like
they were all serious, they were like specialists.
I had my whole family in front of me and they were like,
and they were both like literally,
they basically like, ok, so
you're gonna be paralyzed,
you can't walk. And I was just like
just
I was literally
cracking jokes like day one, I was just like,
guys,
I can't be like the backbone of the whole family
like my back's broken like I can't step it up.
So,
yeah, yeah.
So honestly like
the way you see me now is how I was from day one. Like I haven't changed at all.
I'm building a drift car. I'm not sure if you know what drifting is.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah like
to the side to the side. Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. My girl that's my
gift part.
She's so
she's so oo
it's a 13 with an LS one in it. I'm not sure if
you know what an L
one is that a
lot of
uh
a
va V eight motor.
So it's a very powerful motor in that.
Are you coming? Sw
Yes.
Um
to.
Alright. Alright that's done that's
done
I nearly
zip my vagina.
Yeah hold on
o
I
forgot that guy's name
Ro
Rodrigo Rodrigo.
Oh
my God
yeah what do you think of it?
What do you
think of him?
He's generally a nice guy but he's not your type you wouldn't fuck him
would you?
I don't know I don't know I
I would I think I would I actually honestly think I would.
Oh my God I am so
I'm back I'm back
I don't want to end the way
so we need we need to calculate like the
the alcohol weight ratio
like I don't think everyone I think everyone
gets um 46 kg that was
a
that was actually good vodka. Was that what
the
hey
Christina
I
gotta get out of here but can I get your number?
Oh of course of course. Ok.
Ok hold on
thank you
I'll
see you soon. Ok
definitely definitely another time again.
No was it
did you have
what happened there? What happened? What you trying to remember?
I don't know what the fuck just have it. I'm pissed.
Ok?
No, he just got my number.
Oh You got your number? He got my number.
Yeah, he's got, he ha he has to pack up now.
Should we go help
him? Should you go out there and help
him,
help him
there? No
way
to
drink. I drink.
O
Cheers to that Christina.
Yes.
Yeah.
Hello.
You.
This is a
fucking workout.
Whoa,
I am fucking wasted.
Do you normally take girls to a second hand shop?
That's, that's a funny joke. That's a funny joke. Jake.
Um
No, I don't actually um
it's mostly you uh it's mostly you that I've done that with.
I think it was um
it was fun. It was, it was, it was, it was a good adventure.
Op shop was good.
Tacos were cold.
It was a good experience though.
Um
And
uh yeah, I'll um
let me give you a kiss and I'll just get out of here.
Let's go.
So the guy that I was just talking to at the pile, did he message you
get out?
So he said
what? And I must love
Rodrigo.
OK.
I represent.
Hello.
How are you? What's been happening?
I not much. How are you?
Oh, there's another dog there. How was your date?
Yeah, it was nice. I mean he was very talkative.
It's lovely but
he left me on red but I was like, oh, thanks for tonight. And I was like,
so
that's all good.
Yeah, I was like, oh, thanks for coming tonight and he was like, no worries.
And then that's it.
That's all happened after that when you messaged him to like, thank you afterwards.
Were you kind of hoping that it would like, you know, start a conversation and?
Yeah, kind of. But he ghosted me.
So what do you do when you get ghosted?
I make myself look really pretty. I dress myself up. I go out with my friends.
I get really drunk and then I kiss someone
and then I go back on bumble and then I just keep swiping.
There we go. Just got a match. Just then
what are you saying?
I usually just say like higher and then like an next and next.
That what?
It's always the same message for every single person
got to stick to the script.
And uh what would you say to someone who says disabled people can't be sexy?
Why
I would just say why?
Like, why do you think that way?
You know, there's so many elements
to being sexual that
so many people can fulfill
if you're someone that doesn't think a disabled person will be sexy or sexual,
you need to come on a date with me so I can prove you otherwise.